Social demotion (doctor to nurse's aide, lawyer to clerk, exec2sec) is just one of the kinks I enjoy. I like all manner of scenarios in which a woman is reduced to submission before a man. The fact that I identify as a feminist only increases my enjoyment maledom fantasies (and if you can't distinguish easily between fantasy and reality, you shouldn't be on BDSMlr, even if the calendar says you're over 18).